Let us show you ALL the basics of safe, consensual BDSM play with an intimate look into our private play! We’re a married couple in a full-time Mistress-slave relationship. We are not actors or producers ─ we are real people living the real BDSM lifestyle 24/7. We made this no-budget, DIY home video production to make kink accessible to everyone!

We’ll bring you into our actual play and show you everything you need to know to start enjoying BDSM today, from key concepts to basic techniques. At the heart of our teaching are hot hands-on exercises you can do with your partner for the ultimate erotic thrill ride.

Please join us for an intimate, personal journey into real-life BDSM! We make consensual kink simple, sexy and fun.

Our comprehensive 105-minute tutorial covers all the basics and more, including:

- Key BDSM and fetish concepts made simple and easy to understand
- Seven sexy hands-on BDSM exercises to enjoy with your partner
- How to save money by making your own fetish toys
- How to spice up your sex play with fantasy and roleplaying
- Techniques for erotic bondage, spanking, whipping and more
- How to meet other kinky people and take your play further

About Us: Lilith Starr holds a BA with Honors from Harvard and a Master’s in Communication from Stanford. She has 13 years experience as a professional dominant and kink author and educator. Uruk Black has been her full-time collared slave and husband for three years. They have devoted their life to helping people discover the joys of kink.

  • If you are someone who's curious about BDSM but don't know where to start might I recommend you start with this.

    — Mel Strong